Five Things You Can Do Right Away to Improve Your Chances with Women

I recently joined a forum about dating and it's depressing how many "beta" guys are upset because women "don't like nice guys." The questions they ask and their bitter posts reveal that they have no idea what they're doing. You can be a nice guy. Lots of women like nice guys... that aren't afraid to ask them out or make a move.

1) Stop Telling Women They Are Attractive
It's okay to do this sparingly but most hot women know that they are hot. There are plenty of idiots that are already telling her this on a regular basis. By being consistent, charismatic, and fun to talk to you're already showing her you're interested. Use compliments sparingly and don't allow them to become the main topic of the conversation.

2) Stop Sucking at Communication
Stop texting and just call her. Texting is only good for confirming date times, sharing some random hilarious thing that just happened, or when she specifically asks you to. Are you afraid to call because you're shy and awkward? So what? If you get the nerve to ask her out she'll definitely see how awkward you are in person on a date. At least you found out that she's not interested before you wasted a Saturday and $100+ on a date.

3) Stop Thinking in "Leagues" and Putting Women on Pedestals
One of the most annoying habits I've noticed is that guys want to know how to speak to a woman they have a crush on. As if this one specific woman doesn't adhere to the same rules of space, time, and human frailty that everyone else does. Whether she's hot, smart, funny, Muslim, Christian, accomplished, well-educated, or anything else you find intimidating SHE'S STILL JUST ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. Just talk to her. She's either going to like you or not. Stop being afraid to approach women. If she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. That is the truth whether you muster up the courage to ask her out or not.

4) Stop Overanalyzing Everything
I think this is probably where most "nice guys" put themselves in the friendzone the most. You look at everything a girl says and does and try to find out what it means until you miss the opportunity to actually ask her out. Then you complain that she "friendzoned" you. Just go for it. Will you ask some women out and get rejected? Yes. Would it be better than torturing yourself with "what if's?" In my opinion, yes. Do I make an ass out of myself sometimes by just going for it? Absolutely. It makes for good laughs later. I have yet to meet someone who died or was severely psychologically damaged from being rejected. Other than the possible interest of one woman, there really isn't anything to lose.

5) Make Your Intentions Clear
I recently read this post:

There was a time I asked a woman out on a date, right... she calls me back and asked me, "When you asked me out, did you mean for a date?"

Of course what I was thinking (Um, yeahhhhh...what rock have you been living under).


You're doing it wrong if a woman has to call and clarify that you're asking her on a date. This guy is obviously oblivious to the fact that he isn't sending women clear signs of interest. Stop being a wuss and let women know what your intentions are when you ask them out.