Why Can't I Get a Girlfriend?

Guys that ask this question seem to have one thing in common: They don't feel like they are in control of their relationships. It's not uncommon to hear a guy complain about women being difficult or wanting too much or blah blah blah

Stop generalizing women and accept that the specific woman you are having problems with just isn't the right one for you. By generalizing women as unattainable and difficult, you give up all of your possible hope for a relationship with any woman. You allow your happiness to be controlled by a few negative experiences and women that couldn't care less about you.

Women can smell desperation, bitterness, and passive-aggressive behavior from miles away. If you're allowing past experiences to rule your life they usually can tell. When you fail with a woman, you only fail with ONE WOMAN. She has nothing to do with the other billions of women on the planet.

You can get a girlfriend....

• Just not with a Victoria's Secret model looking chick if you don't have what she's looking for in a man
• Just not with an ambitions and motivated woman if you can barely keep a job
• Just not with an extremely intelligent woman if you can't keep up with her in a conversation
• Just not with a woman that's made it clear that she's looking for a serious relationship when you're being sketchy because you only want to be FWB
• Just not with a woman that has friends and a life if you just want to sit at home all the time and do nothing
• Just not with a stable, fun, and secure woman if you aren't stable, fun, and secure
• Just not with mature, marriage material women if you insist on dating the same way you did when you were in high school

See the trend here? You have to accept that relationships are two-sided. It's not just about what you want and what you're looking for. She has needs that have to get met too and if you can't meet them, don't expect to be considered worth her time. Are your expectations aligned with what you can actually offer women?