The One

The idea of there being one specific person out there especially for you has to be one of the most idiotic things I've ever heard. Soulmates do not exist. There are plenty of common sense reasons why it's not possible.

1) Most of Us Would Die Alone

If throughout all of time there is only one person that perfectly meets your needs there's a HUGE chance you won't speak the same language, live in the same country, or even live in the same time period.

2) Older Generations Compromised

Those perfect couples you admire in your family have marital issues like everyone else. Believing your grandparents are soulmates is so stupid that it's cute.

Our grandparents didn't have the Internet. The only people they could choose from lived in a 100-mile radius in most cases.

What does that mean? Your granddad had to choose a woman based on the best combination of looks and personality available to him at the time. His brain and disco stick did the picking. Nothing overly romantic about it.

3) No Spiritual Support
 
Typically the girls I date are some kind of Christian and they will argue that it's in the Bible. Sorry to tell you this but it's not. There is no scientific or biblical support for soulmates. It just doesn't exist.

Truth is there's plenty of people that are able to make you happy. It's all about timing, dedication, and passion. Any relationship where both people effectively communicate, take care of each others' needs selflessly, and genuinely enjoy spending time together can work.