"The kind of person I'd like to meet. Dull/stupid is an absolute deal breaker, no matter how nice the person. I need to be able to have engaging conversations. Good humour is incredibly important, a bit of wit goes a long long way. I also need to meet women who will stand up to me rather than capitulate on every disagreement. Ideally I'd like to meet someone who demands the best of me but also has strong empathy and compassion. I don't want to be with someone who expects the relationship to have a leader and a follower, mutual respect is a must have."
After speaking to this guy, it was pretty clear that he was a genuinely nice and funny person. In fact, he offered to help with the blog if I wanted him to. So why was he having a hard time meeting intelligent, funny, sexy, and sassy women? Simply because his profile wasn't intelligent, funny, and sexy.
When I read his profile most of it was about what he did or didn't want in a woman. Telling a woman what she has to be like to be worth your time is probably the least sexy thing you could ever do. The only thing that could possibly be less sexy is complaining about women in your profile, which he was also guilty of doing.
1) Never put anything negative in your profile or in the first five messages. Strangers don't want to hear about how miserable you are. It also makes you seem cheap, lame, depressing, or just like a straight-up jerk.
2) Make your profile about what YOU are like. If funny, smart, and sexy women don't think you're funny, smart, and sexy they won't respond to your messages and they definitely won't message you first. Your profile should appeal to the type of people you want to attract. If you're not sure what to write, I'm here to help and will respect your privacy.
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